Such a simple, yet well said, epiphany. Young adults, under societal pressure to marry early, often make impulsive and poor marital choices. I did. And, while I do believe that marriage is the better option for most adults, we shouldn't marry until we are mature enough to be truly objective about all aspects of our potential life partner, no matter our age, and hormones be damned! Divorced from my first wife, I have certainly chosen a more compatible wife the second time around, with much better results. I will make it to the finish line this time, no problem.