As someone who dealt with a BPD spouse for 25 years, ranging from almost unrecognizable on our wedding day to extreme disfunction the day she left, I can relate to your article intimately. I wish I had the knowledge to recognize BPD before I got married. The clues were there, but in the end, she fooled us all until it was too late and kids were born. Keep sharing. Reach as many people as you can. I'm happily remarried now, but it was hell going through that first marriage.